So here it goes...
My step-sister, and if you read my blog I've mentioned her before, is pregnant after IVF #2. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her. However, she told me (not that long ago) that if they had twins she would abort one...NOT KIDDING! So now here they are at IVF #2 and guess what my SIL (who's pg with an oops baby) just told me? That's right, step-sister supposedly had an u/s today that showed two sacs. Now, step-sister emailed me on Saturday and said she wasn't having an u/s for two weeks so I'm not sure where the truth is in all this.
Are you following so far? OK, good.
Anyway, supposedly they are OK with twins now but it makes me so angry/hurt/frustrated that someone who would even say such a thing should have the opportunity to have twins. I know a few posts ago I said I was OK with my IF but maybe this is showing that I'm not, I don't know. I feel better after the vent but I'm sure those feelings will go away when I start hearing about the first grand babies etc...PUKE!!! I will feel terrible if anything happens to her now but ugg, I'm just so uggh.
Thanks for listening. I'll keep you updated on the drama.
5 comments:
Aborting a twin? Yikes. That makes me so sad.
I would never abort a twin. I can understand your anger and frustration.
Twins aren't that rare in nature, which makes aborting extreme, IMO
{{{hugs}}}
Don't feel bad...that was an extremely horrible thing for your SIL to say. I hope she didn't realy mean it! I know it will be really sucky when you have to hear all about the 'first grandbabies' and I feel for you. Just remember your frosties are waiting for their mommy and that we're always hear for you to vent to! ((HUGS))
My dear thank you for stopping by my blog and leaving me a message. I came by to see how you were getting on and reading this about your step sister actually brought tears to my eyes. It's not you that are not ok with your IF, it's SHE who doesn't realise how lucky she is to have gotten pregnant, and she could have chosen to trasfer only one embryo if she was so worried about twins. Those things are bad enough to be thought about, but saying it to another IF person? That's complete disrespect. Big hug to you, Fran
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