FET in March??

I can't believe I am saying this but I think we are going to try and do a FET in March!! I had an appointment with my new oncologist today who is a sarcoma specialist and he thinks that it would be safe for me to go ahead and get pregnant (as long as we do it soon). He thinks I have about a year before another tumor shows up. I am fully aware of the fact that I won't be able to have any scans while I'm pregnant (if I get pregnant) and that when/if the baby is born I will have to get a scan right away to see if there's a tumor (which there probably will be) My tumors don't seem to grow very fast though so he thinks it will be OK. I've already contacted mt IVF coordinator and she said that when I started my period in March I would start estrogen patches, after 10-14 days on patches I would have an u/s to look at my lining and if all looked good the transfer would be the next week.

There are lots of things to be done prior to all this though...IVF coordinator said I need a pap and tons of b/w. Shit, I don't have Kai.ser anymore so I don't have a PCP to order all that stuff for me and I know insurance won't cover it if it's done by the RE.

Uggh, I can't believe all this is happening.

PS. If you are on my cancer blog list, please don't say anything about this because we aren't telling many people.