This weekend I have a baby shower to attend...to be honest, I think I am OK with it (that might change after). I know that, no matter how long we've tried or how bad we want it, we cannot have a baby right now until all this cancer is gone.
Now this is what pisses me off about baby showers, specifically one shower.
I get an invitation in the mail today for my BF's baby shower in April (she was the MOH in my wedding). I had offered my house for the shower but she said she wanted to have it closer to where she lives and didn't know where I might be in my treatment so didn't say anything. What pisses me off is that I wasn't even ASKED to help with the shower and when I get the invite today there are four names of people who are "hosting" the shower. I wasn't even asked and I'm one of her closest friends. I am hurt, really hurt. The friend who is doing most of the duties doesn't even live in our state...WTF!!! I know she was "looking out for me" with my treatments but to not even be asked is messed up. Of all the baby showers I would be willing to help with, this would be it and I'm not a part of it at all.
**Sigh**
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2 comments:
Does she know about your IF? Maybe with your treatments & IF, she just didn't want you to have to deal with that too. It definitely hurts not to be included at all or be on the invite as far as helping. I would maybe call your BF or the out-of-state girl doing all the main stuff and ask how you can help. Just say how much your were looking forward to helping and maybe they'll get the hint. That sucks. ((HUGS))
That is annoying, sorry. (((HUGS)))
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